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Preventing Turf Wars 

by Nick Wagner
If you are like most religious educators, you probably wear many hats and have diverse responsibilities in your parish. Sometimes the diversity can be challenging and other times maddening. When the challenges begin to become a little too challenging, keep this thought in mind. You really only have one task:
"The definitive aim of catechesis is to put people not only in touch, but also in communion and intimacy, with Jesus Christ"
(General Directory for Catechesis 80). 

Everything you do has as its goal putting people into intimate communion with Jesus. Think about what that means for a moment. It means that you may not have to worry as much that people know enough, attend enough sessions, fill out the proper forms, say the right words, do the right things, or follow all the instructions. All these things are important, but none of them is the goal. At the end of the day, if the catechetical ministry of the parish has put people in touch with Jesus, you have done your job.

So how do you do that? How do you put people in touch with Jesus every day? The first thing you have to do is get help. Catechesis cannot be a "Lone Ranger" ministry. You are going to need the help of the pastor, the liturgy planning team, the music ministry, the youth ministry, the parish school -- all the ministries in the parish. The way to get all these helpers on board is to continually hold up the vision of catechesis in the parish. Tell them as often and in as many ways as possible that your goal is to put people in touch with Jesus -- in communion and intimacy. Ask them, as often and in as many ways as you can think of, how they can imagine contributing to that goal.

Getting cooperation

The difficulty is that all of us are subject to turf-ism. All of us want to protect our corner of the parish and implement our programs in ways that we know are going to "work." We don’t want a lot of bother and intrusion from people who really don’t know what they are talking about. Unfortunately (or fortunately) the Gospel demands that we give up on that kind of thinking. To be in touch with Jesus means being in intimate communion with the others in our Christian community -- even those we don’t like very much. We don’t necessarily have to become best friends with those we find difficult to be around, but we do have to find a way to work together to accomplish the primary goal. There are two things to keep in mind when developing working relationships: boundaries and competency.

Boundaries

Sometimes turf wars develop because of a lack of clear boundaries. Some folks in ministry resist having clear boundaries because they see them as barriers. If that is true for you, try thinking of boundaries more like traffic lanes than like walls. By having clearly marked traffic lanes, everybody can get where he or she is going without crashing into one another. If you need to change lanes for some reason, you can. However, you need to signal your turn and wait until the coast is clear.

Good ministerial boundaries are best set up by having written job descriptions. This is true even of volunteer ministers. Let’s imagine the youth minister and the liturgist engaged in a struggle over who plans the confirmation liturgy. If that task is set out in one or the other’s job description, there could be little dispute about whose job it is. Another example might be a struggle between the DRE and the school principal about what first communion preparation program should be used by the children of the parish. A clear description of who is responsible for that decision could help avoid conflict. Or suppose the head communion minister took it upon herself to correct the way in which the teachers serve communion at a school Mass. Is that in her job description? If not, it would be easier to call her attention to the fact that she had crossed a boundary.

Good fences make for good neighbors and good boundaries can make for good ministry.

Competency

The next thing to be aware of is competency. Boundaries will not eliminate all turf wars because sometimes members of the team think a job outside their own area is not being done competently. The temptation is for the dissatisfied team member to attempt to take on the task so it will be done "right." Remember, though, the goal is not first of all to get things done right. The goal is to put people -- even incompetent team members -- in touch with Jesus.

And that is the key to understanding competency. Competency is not first of all about academic training. It is about the ability of the minister to put people in touch with Jesus. A music minister will do that through liturgical music, a liturgist through ritual prayer, a principal through teaching and administration, etc. Each of these ministers needs to be skilled and trained in his or her job in order to put people in touch with Jesus through that ministry. However, a musician can be a talented pianist but fail to bring people into intimate communion with Jesus. Competency for ministry is not just about how well a minister can perform the technical aspects of what is listed in the job description.

That does not mean, however, that proficiency at the required skills is unimportant. An interesting thing happens when a minister has a little -- but not enough -- training in his or her area. Undertrained ministers tend to be more defensive about what little they do know and tend to see "constructive criticism" as a threat to themselves. Well-trained ministers, on the other hand, are confident in their abilities and can take criticism for what it is and not as a personal affront.

Let’s suppose the DRE in the parish has done post-graduate study, has worked in parishes for 20 years, has served on the boards of several diocesan and national organizations, and has a working knowledge of all the catechetical documents relevant to parish ministry. In the same parish, the newly hired liturgist has served on the liturgy committee "forever," has been to the Los Angeles Liturgy Conference twice, has taken several of the liturgy courses in the diocesan lay ministry training program, and has a bachelor’s degree in computer science. After a somewhat bumpy rite of acceptance into the order of catechumens, the DRE suggests at the next staff meeting that some time be set aside to evaluate the liturgy. Turf-ism begins to rear its head. It is not in the DRE's job description to evaluate the liturgy, and the liturgist, who must know things did not go well, feels threatened because he does not know why the liturgy did not go well.

Several things can happen in this example to avoid turf-ism, but the first is to take on a loving, gracious attitude. The DRE, in this example, is clearly the person who knows what should have been done and what did not work. The first question she needs to ask is: Did the rite put people in touch with Jesus? Liturgy, like most ministries of the church, is somewhat indestructible. No matter how badly we mess it up, the assembly still seems to find a way to pray. So, while the DRE may hope for better things next time, she can begin by acknowledging what worked. By staying within her own boundaries and focusing on the positive, the DRE can begin to build a trust relationship with the liturgist. It may take a year or more; however, that is the primary aim of catechesis -- to put people in relationship with Jesus. Nothing is more important. Then, once a secure relationship is established, the DRE might be able to serve as a mentor to the new liturgist, guiding him to the proper coursework, commentaries, and concepts about liturgy.

Creative tension

It is important to point out the difference between turf wars and creative tension. In an ideal world, all ministers on the team are fully competent to do their ministries. That does not mean there will never be conflict. But the conflicts will be those that are bound to happen when everyone feels free to share his or her ideas, hopes, dreams, disappointments, and fears. Hopes and disappointments are not always going to mesh, and tempers may even flair a little. But if everyone believes in the overall vision and in the overall good will of those gathered, creative tension can lead to new insights and new ideas.

Dealing with discouragement

Avoiding turf wars completely is not possible. We are all fallible and subject to stress and frustration. However, if your primary goal is to put more and more people in touch with Jesus, you cannot afford to let turf-ism get in the way. You will have to struggle to find ways to overcome your own natural defensiveness and that of those you work with. By practicing these more open behaviors, you will likely get hurt. Someone else may not play by the same rules and may continue to make assumptions about you and refuse to cooperate with you. Every situation is different, but the general rule of thumb has to be go back and try again. When you think you cannot try any more, pray. What you cannot do, God can. The psalmist says:
"Though I am weak and poor,
God cares for me.
My help, my savior,
my God, act now!" (40:17 Liturgical Psalter).

My final suggestion is to pick your battles. Sometimes people can get into turf wars over insignificant issues. If you get stuck, ask yourself how important the issue is to you. Are you just defending your turf on "principle"? Even if it is an important issue, can you let go of it this time and hope for a better resolution next time? Will more people be touched by Jesus if you stand firm than if you turn the other cheek?

What works?

What techniques have you tried for breaking down barriers and eliciting cooperation? What tips can you share to help others who are striving to put more people in touch with Jesus? Send your ideas to LITURGICAL CATECHESIS, 160 E. Virginia St. #290, San Jose, CA 95112. Or post your comments in the Liturgical Catechesis discussion forum at our website at www.rpinet.com. -- Nick Wagner