by Paul Turner
Our Catholic Church treasures the sacrament of reconciliation.
When we regret what we've done wrong, we may confess our sins to
God through the ministry of a priest. As a result, many
Catholics experience profound peace, acceptance, forgiveness and
freedom from the burden of their transgressions.
Many parishes offer a communal celebration of penance, especially
during Advent and Lent. But private reconciliation is usually
available every week of the year, and a priest will generally
arrange to meet with you if the appointed times prove
If you'd like to celebrate the sacrament of reconciliation,
here's what to do:
* Prepare. Prayerfully recall your sins. Some will be
specific actions. Some represent a more general pattern of
* Go to the priest. Visit when he's in the reconciliation room
at your parish, or ask for an appointment. You may either
kneel anonymously behind a screen, or sit in a chair where
you may speak face to face.
* Be welcome. You and the priest may greet each other. Make
the sign of the cross. He may urge you to have confidence in
God. You may indicate the interval since your last confession or
anything else that will help. Just use common sense. Either
you or the priest may read from Scripture if you like.
* Confess your sins. Some penitents begin with a formula like,
"Bless me, Father, for I have sinned." But you don't have
to. Let the priest know your sins. If you like, you may
discuss the sins you're confessing, so the priest can give
you the best counsel.
* Receive a penance. The priest will recommend some action
after you leave, to indicate to God the sincerity in your
heart. Usually he suggests prayer or self-denial. If it
sounds difficult, let him know.
* Pray for forgiveness. The priest may invite you to say a
prayer of sorrow aloud. If you remember the Act of Contrition
you may use it. But you may also speak simply from your heart.
Just tell God you're sorry and you'll try to do better.
* Receive absolution. This is the best part. The priest
proclaims absolution, and God forgives your sins.
* Conclude. The priest may say, "Give thanks to the Lord for
he is good." If so, answer, "His mercy endures forever." Or
he may conclude informally.
* Change! Go forth, and with God's help, begin to live a new
life of freedom from the slavery of sin!
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(Paul Turner, pastor of St. John Regis Parish in Kansas City, MO,
holds a doctorate in sacramental theology from Sant' Anselmo