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Catholic Church allows a eulogy to be spoken before the end of the vigil
service and before the end of the funeral liturgy. “A member or a friend
of the family may speak in remembrance of the deceased.” After the Gospel,
however, a brief homily based on the readings should always be given, “never
any kind of eulogy” (Order of Christian Funerals 141).
The
homily holds pride of place in every liturgy. At a funeral, the homily
should proclaim the central Christian beliefs about life and death: God's
undying love, the death and resurrection of Jesus, the consolation and
strength which help the Christian face death with hope of eternal life.
The
funeral homily brings the comforting word of God to the mourners. Although
it frequently draws from the example of the deceased's life, the homily
is not intended as a biographical summary.
To
allow the good deeds of the deceased to be presented to the community,
the liturgy also permits a spoken remembrance. This may occur near the
end of the service, apart from the homily. The funeral rites offer no further
advice about the content of this talk. The one who prepares it should keep
in mind the nature of the celebration. The presentation may recall those
aspects of the deceased which will inspire the community to renew its commitment
to Christ. Brevity is advisable, because this talk should not detract from
the Liturgy of the Word nor from the prayers for the deceased. A few details
should suffice.
At
some vigil services, the presider allows mourners spontaneously to share
memories of the deceased. Such a ritual may kindle the community's memory
of the deceased by allowing those who grieve to share their insight. Even
so, a few memories should suffice. In this way the remembrance will not
overshadow the reason for the gathering: the proclamation of redemption
in Jesus Christ.
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Paul
Turner, pastor of St. Munchin Parish in Cameron, MO, holds a doctorate
in sacramental theology from Sant' Anselmo University in Rome. |